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If You Want To Get A Singaporean Girlfriend – Read This If You Are A Local Based In SG
There are many ways you can get one. In this particular article, we will talk about the tips and tricks that you should know to best achieve success in SG.
Getting a Girlfriend in Singapore is Easy If You Know The Following Tips
- First of all, if you want to know how to get a girlfriend in Singapore, you first need to understand culture. This is about understanding how girls think and behave in a particular culture or city, in this case – SG. It is important to note that if you have been taking specific advice from guys used to wooing girls in a completely different area like Las Vegas or Sydney or Moscow, these methods are not necessarily your best choice locally.
- Secondly, you should understand human psychology. The first thought that a girl has if you approach her is not whether she likes you or not. Her auto defense system will be telling her, “OMG, why is this guy approaching me, what does he want?”. This happens on a subconscious level before her conscious mind even processes any other thought. So if a girl gives you a shocked body language or facial expression, do not even react to that or let that faze you. Because this is SG, most girls would have bumped into countless insurance agents, property agents and credit card salespeople on a near daily basis. Add on to the fact that Asians are generally more conservative and less welcoming to strangers approaching them, your first goal is to lower her subconscious defense mechanism.
- When you approach a girl in public, or even in a social gathering, it is recommended that you start off with a genuine compliment. When it comes to this compliment, make sure that it is truly heartfelt, and even if it may be a short compliment or a long winded one, make sure that it is not something you will say for the sake of flattering her only. Just like you hate salespeople who call you ‘shuai ge’ just because they want your deal, be genuine with the lady. An additional tip is that you may want to compliment about something she did or she is wearing, as those are safer choices of compliments, and more unique than just talking about her looks which every other guy already does!
- Lose all expectations. That is correct. This is not so that you can deal with potential disappointment. But focus on enjoying your conversation with her. If you try to talk to her with an ulterior motive, she will always feel like you want something out of her. However, if you talk to the girl and focus on enjoying yourselves, she will envision herself in future just always enjoying her time with you. This creates a picture in her subconscious mind, and she will be more receptive to you pitching a date idea afterwards.
- If you are going to pitch a date idea, then you might want to read our article on ideas which does not involve the typical dinner and movie! This is to separate you from the other guys who may have been reaching her too.
- Congrats if you successfully got her on your first date! It is now time to make sure that your first date goes smooth
Every country may be different – these tips applies best on local girls in SG
A word of disclaimer is that these tips may vary from country to country, and city to city. These are only best used locally in SG!