Ever wondered how some people seem to see so much relationship success easily, while others struggle all their lives to even find that one special partner? Well, other than engaging our services to help you find suitable people, here is a very big tip to help you explode your success when it comes to relationships and dating.
Here is the one big factor that is holding you back – you are not you enough. What do I mean by that? You are simply not being you enough. There are all kinds of gurus and coaches – some ask you to be someone you are not, while others ask you to always be you at all times.
Here is our take on this issue – if you are naturally rude or always make sarcastic comments when unsolicited for, then you should probably change that part of you. However, if you do not like doing a certain activity, or have a certain value system, and the other party challenges it, do not back down and stick to it. As you can see, there are parts where you could potentially change, but largely, you should never change yourself.
Most people that fail to see any relationship success their whole lives, and cannot even meet a suitable person at all think that they are being themselves, when they are not. There are a few different scenarios.
First of all, some people get into relationships, only to realize that the other party and them were never suitable for each other. This commonly boils down to either or both parties not being themselves enough, and covering up parts of their personality and more during the initial stages of the relationships. That is why it is so important to always be yourself right on day one of this group of people, so that you sieve out the people who will never last with you right on day one instead of on day 100!
Second of all, awkwardness can set in without you even realizing it. Sometimes, you may like the other party too much, and you have a scarcity mindset and are worried that if they do not like you back, it is the end of the world. So you always tend to act awkwardly and unnaturally in front of them and try to portray an image of you which you think they may like without even realizing it. This usually turns the other party off. This can even happen on a subconscious level without either party knowing why it is happening.
If you have always struggled with romantic relationships, then try this tip – always be yourself even if you think you may turn the other person off. Politeness and basic communication etiquettes still apply, but other than that, never waver from being yourself. Even when it comes to ‘blind’ dates that matchmakers like us put you on, and even though we already help you sieve out and find people who match you in terms of things like personality and value systems, there are still things that you need to prepare on your end to see more effective results like the above, so that you can leverage our services to the maximum.