Having an abundance mindset can truly help you out in dating and see more success easily. It is basically a way of thinking and living life in which you are always resourceful, and not worried even if it feels like the ‘end of the world’, because you will still find more answers or solutions. Here is how that is done when it comes to relationships!
When it comes to dating, some people have something that is known as a scarcity mindset. They feel that every single person they meet is the last person on planet Earth other than themselves, and if they do not get together with that person, it is the end of the world. The truth is that, such a thinking hurts you way more than helping you! The reason for that is because you tend to act awkwardly in front of that person, whether you realize it or not.
On the other hand, with a resourceful and abundant thinking, you will always be confident and focus on enjoying yourself during your appointments, instead of trying to force every single date to turn out a certain way unnaturally.
Additionally, having an abundance mindset will also definitely help in calming yourself down before a date, which is essential, or you will look like an awkward teenager and blow any chances of potential success you may have otherwise!
Having such a mindset is particularly important in a place like Singapore, where the population is considered small for a country, and a scarcity mindset may start to creep into your mind if you are not used to this.
So how do you have this type of thinking more easily? Does it happen magically or by force? A simple way to have this is to actually incorporate abundance into every aspect of your life, whether or not it is related to relationships or not. For instance, if you just missed a sale, do not worry! There will be another one at the shopping mall soon. If a particular store no longer has what you want, simply go to another branch or even brand! These may sound like insignificant and irrelevant things – and you may be right for thinking that. However, it is a powerful psychological trick that will trick your mind into having an abundance mindset if you do it often enough. How you do one thing is how you do everything. Keep that in mind as you go about your life now if you want more relationship success!