If you want to find more success when it comes to relationships and especially when you actually met with the right one regardless of whether you use us or you do meet him or her by yourself, you definitely need to pay attention to the small things more often. Here is what I mean.
You definitely should not be rushing to ask for the next meeting – you definitely do not need to ask for it by the end of the first meeting like what some ‘coaches’ teach you. Some dating coaches teach their students that they must ask for a second meeting before the end of the first date. That is simply not true, and can lead to two highly probable and disastrous situations – you acting awkwardly due to this unnecessary pressure on yourself, and you could read the signals wrong and pressure your date at the wrong timing. You can always text each other afterwards.
If you are meeting at an air-conditioned place in Singapore, keep in mind that most women feel colder than men, generally speaking. Therefore, if you are a guy, make sure that your date is not freezing to death! This is especially the case in certain shopping malls, places or restaurants where the air conditioning units are turned on at full blast. Either offer her your jacket if the situation allows, or if that may feel over the top, then pick a seat or location where it is not as cold for the lady. Being a gentleman will definitely go a long way in helping improve your chances for dating success!
If you are a lady, you probably have a smaller appetite for food than the guy you are on a date with. If you like the man, make sure to spare him a thought if you are a small eater! This is because while you may feel full with just a cookie and a Starbucks drink, the guy probably will not be, and his stomach will be grumpy throughout. Make sure to show your care and concern by asking if he needs to eat other food as he is probably not full. Such small thoughts and displays of concern may not sound like much, but you can rest assured the guy will likely feel touched!